In a raw, tearful interview from their home in Wisconsin, the grieving parents of Alex Jeffrey Pretti – the 37-year-old ICU nurse gunned down by federal Border Patrol agents in Minneapolis on January 24, 2026 – have revealed shocking new details about their son’s dramatic life change in the months leading up to his death. Michael and Susan Pretti described how their once-reliable, veteran-caring son quietly quit his job at the Minneapolis VA Medical Center several months ago, began acting “unusual,” and appeared to have joined “some kind of group” that pulled him deeper into the dangerous world of anti-ICE protests.
“He Seemed to Have Joined Some Kind of Group” – Father’s Chilling Warning
Michael Pretti, speaking to reporters with a voice heavy with sorrow and confusion, painted a picture of a son who had transformed before their eyes. “He seemed to have joined some kind of group,” the devastated father confessed. “We warned him two weeks ago – protest if you want, but don’t engage, don’t do anything stupid. He said he understood.”
The couple, who last spoke to Alex just days before the fatal encounter, recalled how their “kindhearted” boy – a dedicated nurse who once spent his days saving critically ill veterans – had grown distant from his old routines. “He gradually drifted away from his normal life, talking more about ‘standing up’ and ‘making a difference’ in ways that were very different,” Michael added. “We thought it was just stress at first, but now… we don’t know.”
Alex had been a fixture at the VA hospital, known for his calm under pressure and genuine compassion. Colleagues called him “reliable” and “kind,” with no hint of political activism on the job. Yet sources close to the investigation confirm he resigned quietly in mid-2025 for “personal reasons” that stunned coworkers. Friends noticed he had more free time, spending it at protests rather than hikes or with his beloved dog Joule.
(Above: A framed photo of Alex Pretti at a makeshift memorial in Minneapolis, surrounded by candles and tributes after his death.)
The Phone That Changed Everything: Encrypted Messages Reveal Deeper Involvement
The bombshell came when Minneapolis police and federal investigators extracted data from Alex’s phone after the shooting. Leaked summaries to media outlets paint a far more organized picture than a casual protester caught in the crossfire.
Messages from encrypted apps – including Signal groups tied to “rapid response” anti-ICE networks – reportedly show Alex actively coordinating with organizers. He allegedly shared locations of federal agents, discussed tracking immigration raids, and volunteered to film confrontations and “intervene” to “protect the community.” Exchanges mirrored tactics used in prior incidents, including the January 7 shooting of Renee Nicole Good, where protesters clashed dangerously with agents.
While no evidence suggests Alex intended violence, the chats reveal he willingly placed himself in high-risk zones – right in the path of armed federal officers. DHS officials have cited these findings to explain the split-second decisions made that day, pointing to bodycam footage showing Alex approaching agents while filming, failing to disperse, and reaching toward his waist – where he carried a legally permitted concealed firearm – during the struggle.
Tragically, Alex had a prior run-in with agents just 11 days earlier, captured on video showing physical contact. Was this escalation part of the “group” pull his parents feared?
From Healer to Flashpoint: A Life Upended
Alex’s story is one of heartbreaking reversal. Once a University of Minnesota grad, Boy Scout, and high school athlete, he dedicated his career to healing – first as a nurse, then in the ICU at the VA, comforting those who served. Family photos show a smiling man outdoors, with friends, full of life.
But in recent months, frustration with Trump’s immigration policies boiled over. “He felt the country was going in the wrong direction,” Michael recalled. “He thought it was terrible – grabbing people off the streets, separating families. He cared about those people.”
His parents urged caution repeatedly. “We told him: Observe from afar if you must,” Susan Pretti said in earlier statements. Yet Alex dove in, attending vigils after Good’s death and joining marches that increasingly turned chaotic.
(Above: Alex Pretti pictured in happier times, as shared by family and colleagues – a dedicated nurse who loved the outdoors and his community.)
A Family Torn Apart, Demanding the Full Truth
The Prettis are shattered. Michael repeated his plea: “We warned him. He said he understood, but something pulled him deeper. Whatever that group was, it changed him. Now we just want the full truth – for Alex, for us, for everyone.”
Their anguish echoes amid nationwide outrage. Protests rage on, with calls to abolish ICE growing louder. Yet critics highlight how organized networks – using apps to mobilize crowds in minutes – create deadly flashpoints. Independent journalists have exposed similar Signal groups doxxing agents and summoning mobs to block operations.
Alex’s death – the second U.S. citizen killed by federal forces in Minneapolis this month – has sparked investigations at state and federal levels. Governor Tim Walz demands transparency, while DHS defends agents facing daily threats.
(Above: Mourners gather at a vigil for Alex Pretti in Minneapolis, with signs honoring the fallen nurse and demanding justice.)
The Human Cost of the Divide
Alex Pretti was no villain or martyr in his parents’ eyes – just a son who lost his way. From a healer of veterans to a participant in risky activism, his journey ended in tragedy that could have been avoided. “He loved his country,” Michael insisted. “He just wanted to make things better.”
As America grapples with deepening rifts between protesters and enforcers, the Prettis’ words serve as a stark warning: Good intentions, when mixed with escalation and poor choices, can lead to irreversible loss.
A good man is gone. A family is broken. And questions linger: Who – or what – really pulled Alex into the storm? The full truth may never heal the pain, but his parents deserve it – and so does the nation.
