“He taught me how to stand steady when everything was falling apart.” — for the first time, I speak out about Alex Pretti not just as my mentor, but as my friend, shaped by four intense months side by side at the Minneapolis VA Hospital. Beneath the pride of rigorous ICU training, the quiet weight of responsibility and emotional strain is gently revealed, adding a deeper tension to what it meant to learn from him. The reflection lands with impact, reframing mentorship as something far more personal—and unforgettable.
“He taught me how to stay grounded when everything around us felt like it was falling apart.” For the first time, a former colleague has spoken publicly about Alex Pretti not only as a mentor, but as a close friend. Their bond was forged during four intense months working side by side at the Minneapolis VA Hospital, where the pressure of ICU training blended with the emotional weight of caring for critically ill patients. Beneath the professional pride was a quieter story of responsibility, resilience, and trust—one that reshapes the meaning of mentorship into something deeply personal and lasting.
Similar reflections have emerged from colleagues and friends, all painting a consistent portrait of Alex Pretti, the 37-year-old ICU nurse who died Saturday in Minneapolis. Those who worked with him describe a man whose calm presence and compassion left a lasting impression, not just on patients, but on the people learning alongside him.
Pretti grew up in Green Bay and graduated from Preble High School in 2006. Long before his career in healthcare, those who knew him as a student recall his easygoing nature and genuine kindness. Former biology teacher Jerrod Valley said Alex connected effortlessly with others and brought a sense of warmth into every room he entered.
At the Minnesota Veterans Affairs Hospital, colleagues lined the ICU hallways Monday morning to observe a moment of silence in his honor. The quiet tribute reflected the respect and grief felt throughout the unit. Garrett Peterson shared photos on Facebook, writing simply, “One of our colleagues. May he rest in peace.”
Another coworker, Kaitlin McLean, posted an image of herself and fellow staff members with Pretti, remembering him as “a good, kind, compassionate man.” She reflected on their final conversation, which touched on the emotional challenge of caring deeply about the world outside the hospital while remaining fully present for the patient in front of them. “And he did it so well,” she wrote.
These memories echo throughout the Preble community, where friends and former classmates remember Alex as someone who consistently made life better for others. Valley shared that even years later, small reminders—like an old video from a school field trip—bring back fond memories. “I hope his parents can find peace in knowing what a fine young man they raised,” he said.
As more stories emerge, a clear image takes shape: Alex Pretti was not defined solely by his profession, but by the steady, compassionate way he showed up for others—whether in a classroom, a hospital corridor, or a moment of quiet guidance when someone needed it most.
Beyond the hospital walls, many who encountered Alex Pretti only briefly say his impact was still unmistakable. Patients and their families often remembered him for the way he explained difficult medical situations with patience and empathy, helping them feel less alone during moments of fear and uncertainty. For some, his reassurance made the difference between panic and calm.
As tributes continue to appear, one theme remains constant: Alex had a rare ability to balance professional excellence with genuine humanity. Those who knew him say his legacy lives on not just in his career, but in the people he supported, taught, and inspired. In remembering him, colleagues hope that his commitment to care, dignity, and compassion will continue to guide their work and strengthen the community he served.
